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Kryptonite!  

partygald 39F
3094 posts
10/13/2021 4:31 am

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Kryptonite!


I was about to drop a long-ass post about the last date with Rene, that French policeman (in the most general of terms, I suppose. But he DID show his badge so….that counts 🤪) I’ve been seeing but I’m still mildly embarrassed by it so I’ll save it in a draft somewhere. I’ll post it later when I’m past my own…embarrassment.

Instead, I’m gonna lay it all out cos I think it helps me think. To be honest, I don’t know what I’m doing with him. Ok, I “know” what I’m doing with him. I know pretty well why I keep seeing him but, what I meant was, I don’t know what I’m doing with him. You following? 😝

First of all, personality wise, he’s….sad to say, kinda boring. There are some interests we have in common, but even that, it wears thing very quickly. Makes spending extended periods of time with him, quite challenging. To his credit, he does try quite hard. Gotta give him that. But yeah, I think we’re just generally two people who, if we’re totally honest, won’t get on too well. I’m pretty sure it’s more me than him. He seems fine with my company. Which brings me to the next issue. Escalation. 😳

I’ve somehow found myself with the keys to his apartment. As in, he’s given me the keys to his apartment. Aaaand even asked me to “drop some of my stuff there” if it makes things easier for me. Aaaand even more strangely, I’ve agreed. Okok, hang on. I’m definitely not moving in with him. That’s be crazy. I’ve got a home with a husband AND a live-in bf in it. All I’ve said to Rene was, “ok.” He suggested, I said ok. I’ve got a toothbrush there, which he bought for me. That’s it. I’ve only spent two nights there so. Anyways. I’m digressing. So yes. THAT escalated.

As I said, I can’t spend too much time with him, for obvious reasons being I don’t have that much time to spare. Juggling husband and bf duties is work enough. Also, it’s not super enjoyable. So what then? The sex? Yeah. Won’t lie, it’s one big part. In all fairness, it’s the main point for me, of hooking up with him.

Why does big boy sex have to be so fucking enjoyable? Lol. That body and that dick too. Can’t say it enough, but he looks like he’s carved out of stone. But that big boy sex. Last date, we were doggy style and my legs were off the ground. He held me up with his hands on my hips. I don’t even know how that happened but fucking hell that was fun. Lol.

I think this might end up not very pleasantly, but we’ll see. I need to let him know what’s what soon or it might blow up in my face. Not in a good way too 🤣

Ah well. Thanks for reading. This is my self reflection for the day

partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/13/2021 4:33 am

Also, not the first time I’m dating someone just for sex but….this is sooooo gonna bite me in the ass. Right?


scoupe42 58M  
13018 posts
10/13/2021 6:44 am

The guy who dates you in one lucky guy!


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
373 posts
10/13/2021 8:09 am

It may not bite you in the ass...

Rene knows your life story between the hubby, the live in BF and all of the other obligations you have.

He should know this either has a short life span or he is going to get the few left overs you can offer him. It's just how it goes in these situations.


mufdiver69er2 61M  
1891 posts
10/13/2021 12:29 pm

ever see that movie with kurt russell and ray liotta as a cop, crazy over russell's wife?

woop woop


ClitLickB4DickU 63M  
1364 posts
10/13/2021 6:54 pm

Yup......you're in trouble. But, to be fair, has he ever ASKED you whether you're married or in a relationship? To be honest, it seems that, apart from the sex which you both benefit from equally, he's looking for a replacement wife and mother to his children.

Maybe a laying of the cards in a public place might be in order LOL


ClitLickB4DickU 63M  
1364 posts
10/13/2021 6:59 pm

BTW......I can't wait to hear about what you are so embarrassed about, about what went happened on your last date !!!!!.....given the fairly wild stories of encounters you've told over the years LOL


boobwhisperer69 59M  
8103 posts
10/13/2021 9:45 pm

Sometimes relationships can't be explained!!!! It's just raw!!!!


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/14/2021 1:47 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    The guy who dates you in one lucky guy!
Haha! Might wanna ask them that first….then again, maybe I won’t 🤣


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/14/2021 1:49 am

    Quoting DiscreteSlowRide:
    It may not bite you in the ass...

    Rene knows your life story between the hubby, the live in BF and all of the other obligations you have.

    He should know this either has a short life span or he is going to get the few left overs you can offer him. It's just how it goes in these situations.
Yeah….well….about that 😣. He doesn’t know. But you ARE right about the second part of what you said though….
Either way, thanks for stopping by


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/14/2021 1:50 am

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    ever see that movie with kurt russell and ray liotta as a cop, crazy over russell's wife?
Uhh…what? No, actually. Maybe I should…?


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/14/2021 1:53 am

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    Yup......you're in trouble. But, to be fair, has he ever ASKED you whether you're married or in a relationship? To be honest, it seems that, apart from the sex which you both benefit from equally, he's looking for a replacement wife and mother to his children.

    Maybe a laying of the cards in a public place might be in order LOL
Right?!? He never asked! And for some reason it just never comes up. The whole “replacement wife and mother to his children IS freaking me out. I mean, shit. I don’t think that’s the case as much as him just looking for companionship, but still. Fuuuuck.

Aaaand yeah, the laying the cards in the table thing has to happen. I don’t know if a public space is the right way to go though….hmmm


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/14/2021 1:53 am

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    Sometimes relationships can't be explained!!!! It's just raw!!!!
Yup. Nail. Head. Hit. 😊


Looknfind18 69M  
4374 posts
10/14/2021 4:58 am

good luck, you do seem to be getting a bit overloaded time wise.....


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
373 posts
10/14/2021 6:45 am

Whoops. I assumed he knew.

Yeah you might have a situation on your hands.


discreteSteve62 52M
2173 posts
10/20/2021 11:25 am

If I were in a situation where you would be "once a month Heidi", a sex partner who needs to be fucked until my cock needs a rest, then eaten out until my cock is ready for more, for no greater effort than getting another spare key, of course I'd give you a key. Particularly if you and my wife wanted to get busy when I needed a break. The conversation doesn't need to be any more than, "Faster, slower, more, oh yes!" to be enjoyable. As long as you have the key to indulge mutual lust, and not to steal stuff, you'd be welcome to a key. Even as "once a year Heidi" or "maybe again some time Heidi", key for sex is a "yes".

On the other hand, if he's looking at you as the "Move in and cook for me and the kids" woman, and not the "Fuck until we're too tired to move" woman, some clarifications need to be made.


partygald 39F
1946 posts
10/21/2021 7:05 am

    Quoting discreteSteve62:
    If I were in a situation where you would be "once a month Heidi", a sex partner who needs to be fucked until my cock needs a rest, then eaten out until my cock is ready for more, for no greater effort than getting another spare key, of course I'd give you a key. Particularly if you and my wife wanted to get busy when I needed a break. The conversation doesn't need to be any more than, "Faster, slower, more, oh yes!" to be enjoyable. As long as you have the key to indulge mutual lust, and not to steal stuff, you'd be welcome to a key. Even as "once a year Heidi" or "maybe again some time Heidi", key for sex is a "yes".

    On the other hand, if he's looking at you as the "Move in and cook for me and the kids" woman, and not the "Fuck until we're too tired to move" woman, some clarifications need to be made.
Lol
Ain’t that the truth 😋. Thanks for stopping by, as always


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