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Trust No One  

analartistwy 58F  
52 posts
4/7/2021 2:03 pm
Trust No One

Well except for myself and even then a couple of errors in judgement recently have led me wonder if I shouldn't be questioning my own motives or sanity.

One hard and fast rule that I used have was if someone is dragging their feet about actually meeting, then I move on. Another, was if more than one cancellation happens in a row.. then I move on.

Well, was this guy, this guy I kinda liked, even more than just for a hookup, he said all the right things... Yep, shoulda known.. weeks, weeks I waited.. and strike three.

Some investigation.. a little online snooping and yeah... he lied about everything except his , I believe that he even lied about being horny. Another dang keyboard jockey.

Oh Well! Now more determined than ever. I will get laid and I will get laid on my own terms!

analartistwy 58F  
27 posts
4/7/2021 2:03 pm

Sometimes I am such a dork.

SingleInGR 53M
268 posts
4/7/2021 3:12 pm

I have to agree with your rules, those make sense to me.

And I would add if they can't reply to your text, email or phone call in a reasonable time frame, there is more to the story.

LOL, I never heard that phrase before but I laughed when you stated Keyboard Jockey


I hope next time you have much better luck !

fury5757 41M  
37 posts
4/7/2021 3:19 pm

Wish I was in your town, I would definitely show up to please you .

redrockrascal 62M
22700 posts
4/7/2021 3:33 pm

If people don't/can't voice verify then they aren't verifying at all.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

Massass1963 57M  
1388 posts
4/7/2021 4:38 pm

I have added some rules very recently. But, your rules also are part of my list, as well. If people cancel last minute, I have never reached out for a reschedule. If THEY reach out to me, I give one more try. I haven't had too many cancel (only twice that I can think of in all the time on here).

I have lost my tolerance for people who can't respond to messages in a reasonable time. When people are truly interested and sincere....they don't forget and they don't keep you waiting.

Also, if I don't get a phone number AND am able to contact them before the meet, then I won't meet. I understand people are nervous about giving out personal info, but I have a right, as do they to voice verify and have a reliable way to contact each other.

hotperfume10 48M
123 posts
4/7/2021 7:33 pm

We all are in a adult dating site.. Which is virtual.. Wearing a mask.. So it's always good to be careful. Cautious.. sometimes even after we meet the person on our first date Irv few more times.. We fail to know more things about the person we are dating.. It's always good to date on our terms and conditions not to feel hurt or cheated or embarrassed laters
Stay safe and stay blessed

justme51 69M
924 posts
4/7/2021 7:42 pm

Your not alone on this subject it happens to men too. Just be your self and one day mr right will cum your way.

One can never have enough fun

thenarraguy 35M  
11 posts
4/7/2021 8:07 pm

I always hate the times when you chat with someone and you think its going really well and then they tell you to go to their website and sign up....and you are like....oh fuck you!

jajo696 66F
3212 posts
4/8/2021 12:03 am

im slowly learning this too. Its against my nature to not trust and believe, but more n more im coming into the realization. It takes but a minute to text a ...hi...IF they want to ...and want to keep in touch ~

Ugh @ the liars of the world ~

hotdreamer1000 61M
11858 posts
4/8/2021 10:31 am

"He even lied about being horny" Ha ha! What a great line, this really made me smile!

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