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Life in the Nursery~

Welcome to my little corner of the world. Please feel free to come on in, slip off your clothes and stay for awhile.

What you will read here are just random thoughts, dreams, and fantasys......whatever I choose to write. This is my life.

I tend to write whatever is on my mind, so don't take anything on here personally. I am just being me. I don't write about anyone if you read something and it hits home, I seriously doubt it was about you. If it hurts your feelings I am sorry. Being open and honest is the way I am.

So come in and join me...., I have something special to show in the baby's nursery

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The 80sbaby
Posted:Jan 15, 2011 12:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2021 10:28 pm
Soooooo....I have gotten comments from men & women all over the place. And there are those that are standard members.....and they can't read my profile. So thought i'd be a nice baby and post my profile here so everyone knows where I stand!

I enjoy the company of men, preferably those who are single, confident and secure in themselves. Someone who is intelligent with a great sense of humor and pleasant to be around. I'm not looking for a sugar Daddy, just a man to share my life. For a while or maybe more.

I am open to expanding my horizions with men who are able to engage me both inside and outside of the bedroom. I truly believe that the best things in life are worth working for. I like a man who is real. A man who isn't afraid or intimidated by a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. I am a handful, and well worth the effort. If you are a man who knows how to treat a lady the way she deserves to be treated then here I am waiting just for the taking. I am a single mom so my time to just go "hook up" is not there. I am looking for a 1 on 1 relationship with a man who is secure in himself. Please do not contact me if you are going to blow me off. I AM LOOKING FOR MORE THAN A ONE NIGHT STAND, I DON'T JUMP INTO BED WITH YOU ON THE FIRST DATE! Give me a chance, you might find that there is a real woman here available for the taking by the right guy. I am nice and caring, fun to be around, affecionate and very sensual. I am also kind-hearted and very real. What you see is what you get!

My Ideal Person: I like my men experienced, not looking for a young boy wanting to be taught. A man who is interested in getting to know me as a person not just a bed partner. I hope to meet someone who has more to offer than just a hard cock, regardless of size.I want a gentle lover who will knock my socks off! A man wanting to know my heart. Size and looks not an issue, heart and soul required. Sparks are needed for intimate fun. I am a real woman, not some Barbie, if you want Barbie they usually have them on sale at Wal-mart. I want to find someone who wants to know ME. So don't judge this book by its cover, open it up, read a little then check out the centerfold.

I don't judge by looks or size of cock .... I want a man who is secure in himself. Sense of humor, intelligence, heart, soul, great personality and able to hold a conversation are HUGE pluses!!
Which one ?
Posted:Sep 21, 2021 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2021 5:30 pm

Good evening playmates! I hope you are all nice and snuggled. I wish I was....I do love me some snuggles.

I now have a note on my phone where I am jotting down blog ideas. These ideas come at me at some of the weirdest times and places! Anyone else? So this one...
this one came to me last night.

First off....I am a big flirt. I can talk some big talk when texting, phone calls etc. But when it comes to face to face.....I am a clam. I get so shy and don't know what to do. I guess it is a coping skill. It is even hard for me to look someone in the face if I don't already know them.

So, I have been talking to some men. I mean, I am human. I am a woman....and I do have wants and needs. Ok, so again, I can talk. Again, I get shy.

There are different types of women. There are the women who are the ones you date. You know, the ones you show off to your friends and family. They are sweet, wholesome if you must. You actually want to be with them. No expectations, just that sweet caring togetherness. Then there are those women who you might date, but they are definitely not so sweet and innocent. They are the ones who are possible girlfriends. They are mostly hang around get lucky. And down and dirty in the bedroom......or anywhere they want! Then there are the final ones. These are the women who might be a friend. They might be nothing. The only reason you have them in your book, phone purely sex. I mean honestly....that is what they are good for. Maybe they aren't the prettiest, the skinny barbie, or whatever... but, they make the best lover. But you don't want anyone to know you are with them. You only see each other on occasion. You meet up when nobody is around.

So, I thought to myself. Which one am I. I mean I could be dating material. I mean the right guy for me. It could happen. Not sure if I am the girl who is down and dirty in the bedroom. I mean, I could, but I think I lean more to the former. And... sadly, I know I am seen as the last. I have had men in my past, that is the one and only thing they saw. Hey, Baby.... wanna hook up? Can you come release my tension? Blow me? You get the picture? Yeah...

Ok, so.....tell me.....which one are you?

Hugs and big wet sloppy

Posted:Sep 21, 2021 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2021 8:56 pm

Wellllllll....... sorry. It was definitely a weekend! I was pushed to my energy limit!!!!!

Hi playmates! I hope you are all well. Changed, fed and all snuggly! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. Mine was exhausting! Fun, but I was worn slick!

So, Friday night, a friend took me to see Alabama. I love me some Alabama. I grew up on classic country music. I like the way men look in those blue jeans. I love me a southern drawl. I like it all.... I mean, I was excited. Lol, I was definitely hot! I dressed up. I wore a dress that was a little shorter than normal for this old bird... It was to my knees! And I wore my boots! It was their 50th anniversary tour...…man that kinda floored me. I mean I wasn't even thought of yet....but I knew every word to every song they sang.

Saturday, I was off to watch my nieces soccer games. It was fun. But I was already tired from the concert the night before. And wanna guess who forgot sunscreen? got her ass burned. Not literally my ass....I would have been arrested! But I did get a bit of red.

I had a wonderful weekend. I really did. But it could have been better if I had a strong country boy with those tight levis and those hands to rub me down with some lotion...…

Hugs and big sloppy kisses from me.....the baby

Would you rather.....
Posted:Sep 16, 2021 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 1:01 pm
Ok, I love this! I had so much fun with the last blog I did. The answers were great. So, I figured let's keep it going!!!!

Would you rather be a top or a bottom?
Ok, so i'm still somewhat naive and had to look this up. I am submissive

Would you rather pay or be paid to have sex?
I don't think I could pay for sex. And I am sure nobody would want to pay me!

Would you rather have sex in a public place or in your parent's home?
Well, honestly? I did have sex with my first husband at my home and in his parents! And I have had sex in a public place....

Would you rather be able to only have kinky sex or romantic sex?
I would want romantic.

Would you rather have your hair pulled or have your butt spanked?
I like both, but I favor the hair pulling more.

Would you rather seal a first date with good sex or a passionate kiss?
Definitely the passionate kiss!

Would you rather have a threesome with your partner or cheat?
Threesome......I am not a big cheater or being cheated on!

Would you rather know when your parents are/were having sex or have them know when you are/were having sex?
I don't EVER want to think about my parents having sex. And I figure both my parents were shaking their heads watching me from heaven!

Would you rather go skinny dipping in the ocean or in the pool?
I think pool. I've done this a couple of times. Ocean....I am afraid of something crawling in places that would not be good!

Would you rather do it against the wall or on the bed?
I like both. Plus right now I have a platform bed....waiting to have some fun

Would you rather suck at foreplay or suck at sex?
I think foreplay. I mean hopefully my partner would understand.

Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded during sex?

Would you rather be kissed on the lips over and over or be kissed all over?
I like both!

Would you rather have sex with someone who never showers or someone who never brushes their teeth?

Would you rather be restrained or do the restraining?
Well I don't think I could be restrained. And I am submissive so no restraing of others.

Would you rather have sex with only one person for the rest of your life or a new partner every year?
Well I like the thought of my prince charming for the rest of my life. But, I also have the experience of knowing that isn't always the way it goes. So, I will go with new guy every year.
Would you rather…..?
Posted:Sep 15, 2021 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 1:01 pm
Yes, I am going there! 😈 I mean we are on a sexual site. So…tell me your answers! 🤔

1. Missionary or cowgirl? Well…nothing wrong with either, but I’m going with COWGIRL

2. Lights on or lights off? Definitely lights OFF! 😳 sorry, I’ve got self esteem issues with my body.

3. Dildo or a vibrator? Well, since I’m still kinda figuring out what I like…. BOTH 😃

4. Exhibition or voyeurism? Definitely VOYEURISM….🤤 I love watching!

5. Be submissive or be dominant? SUBMISSIVE…

6. Spit or swallow? I’ve done both. Let’s just say I have NEVER had a complaint 😉

7. Sex in public or keep it in the bedroom? If nobody was around PUBLIC, but realistically BEDROOM😊☺️

8. Watch porn or make porn together? IDK honestly. 🤨

9. Tease with hot wax or tease with ice cubes? ICE 🧊 CUBES

10. Play teacher’s pet or naughty nurse? WHATEVER HE WANTS 😊

11. Lap dance in lace or lap dance in leather? LACE 😇

12. Sex in the shower or sex on the kitchen table? SHOWER 🧼

Ok…now it’s your turn….if you’re brave enough!
Touch me….please
Posted:Sep 14, 2021 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2021 5:48 pm

Do you ever say this? Does your lover? What do you do?

Do you touch her/him? Slowly caressing their body? What do you use? Your fingers…your mouth/tongue…something naughty?

Is this something verbal? Maybe something in the eyes? That hunger you’ve come to know? I

I know that I’ve said it verbally. I’ve given the look. Sometimes I’ve said the words, even begged, and was basically blown off. But, sometimes there is that person. The person who reads between the lines. They hear the pleadings. They want to be the one to touch you.

As his mouth nibbles at your lips. His warm breath caressing your neck. The shock of his fingers touching your nipples. Then as your wetness begins….your arousal heightened. Then the feel of his fingers parting your wet lips. And you explode!

Dammit!!!! Someone needs to get over here and help me finish….remind me tomorrow to change the sheets….again. ☺️
Living life to it’s fullest!
Posted:Sep 13, 2021 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2021 8:56 pm
Hey playmates! I missed you yesterday. My fault…I was not in a good state of mind and since I decided that I’m going to be more positive, I didn’t crawl out of the playpen.

BUT….I’m here now!

Live life to its fullest. What does that mean? I mean don’t we all think that’s what we are doing? Some, yes. Most, probably not. I mean honestly, I wasn’t. I love hard. When I fall in love, I do it to the fullest. Which means that when my heart gets broken….it really shatters. But, life keeps going around me and so must I.

I was introduced to a friend back in January. He and I were both in need of some friendship. He was going through a hard time and so was I. We emailed back and forth, then we texted and finally we met. I was petrified! Just being honest. I love talking to him. But face to face is hard. I have issues. Well, all we are is friends. We gone to eat, chat etc. My friend is finally dating! I am so happy for him. He needs this in his life. He is trying to live his life to the fullest!

My baby girl. Man, she has truly lived a shitty life. The life she was dealt….not fair at all!!! But…she has kept her head up. She met a male when she was in h.s. He lived in another state. They met on a gaming site. They talked and unbeknownst to me, her grandparents planned a vacation so my could meet him in New Orleans. Well, she graduated h.s. and moved out of state to be with him. They lived together for several years. He finally proposed. She and I started planning. My ex mother in law took over of course. But the day finally came…and my beautiful got her happily ever after. Three days later I got a call from my baby. She was now a widow. After planning a wedding she & I were now planning a funeral. Told you she got a shitty hand!!! We moved her back to Oklahoma. It’s been a couple of years now. She graduated with a associates in psychology a few months ago. She is taking coding classes. She is dating. My is continuing to live life to its fullest!

Now, for me. I am newly divorced. It sucks! I have my first apartment. It’s scary being on my own for the first time. I’m a pretty simple girl. I’m comfortable in jeans & a t-shirt. I’m not a big makeup person. So today, I started my day off with a new smile. I put on makeup! I did my hair (ok, so it’s short but dammit I made it cute 😝). I made dinner. I tried something different. It was good. I have been thinking about dating. I don’t know about that quite yet.

I’m living my life to its fullest. And I hope you are too!!!!
Posted:Sep 11, 2021 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2021 6:05 pm
I am human. I make mistakes. I’ve made quite a few in my life. But haven’t we ?

Today seems to be the day to reflect that. Let tell you about mistakes for .

I am a proud season ticket holder for my college team! GO POKES!!! Well, today I the snooze button, so I was scrambling. I didn’t eat breakfast so I didn’t take my meds. I forgot to get a drink when everyone else got a drink on the way. I wore the wrong shoes to walk in. I made mistakes. But….I survived! And it wasn’t that big of a deal.

I was ready when my ride got . We stopped at the drive-thru for food. I filled my water bottle and took my meds at the stadium. And I kicked off those shoes soon I walked in my apartment!

My new outlook is positivity. I’m not perfect, never will be. But, I’m me.
Funny Fridays
Posted:Sep 10, 2021 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2021 6:05 pm

It's finally Friday!!!!

For being a "short" week, this seemed like the longest darn week! Maybe it was just me. But I literally came home everyday and took a 30 minute (sometimes longer) nap. Hopefully your week was good.

So, I decided that on Fridays....I am going to share some "funnies". Hope you enjoy... Don't mind the wetness.....I got excited

What's the height of conceit? Having an orgasm and calling your own .

Do you know how New Zealanders practice safe sex? They paint an X the backs of the sheep that !

What is a Yankee? a quickie but a guy can do it alone.

What do Christmas decorations and priests have in common? Their balls are just for decoration.
Let’s go!
Posted:Sep 8, 2021 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2021 4:50 pm
Yeah…I couldn’t come up with a title. So spank me! 😜

I have several blogs running through my head. So picking one is a little tricky. But one thing I do know, I’m starting fresh. I’m trying to learn from a friend to start looking at the positive in my life and stop griping!

Ok….so let’s go!

I’m a lucky girl. I first got on Adult Friend Finder is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content after my first marriage was ending. Actually a person put me on a different site and a guy contacted me and told me that I didn’t belong on THAT site. 😳 So…I was introduced to Adult Friend Finder is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content.

I was shy. I was very naive to the sexual world. Hell, I’m still shy! And I’m still naive about this sexual world! I’m lucky because I met some AMAZING people! I found friends. I found some lovers…..🥰 Damn….I found some very hot lovers! I told you I’m a lucky girl. And funny thing is….I still have some of these people in my life. And yes, some of them were my lovers. And I still love them.

So, I found love on Adult Friend Finder is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content. I found my husband. I love him. Yes, I said love. Yes, I am now divorced from him. Like, it was final last week. Yes, I still love him. But, we are not a couple. We have parted. And I’m lucky. I am a new person because of him. I’m a lucky girl, no matter how much it hurt. Now….I’m back on Adult Friend Finder is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content is hookup site with a lot of sexually explicit content.

I’m a lucky girl. I’m ok. I’m not looking for love. I have that. I have friends. I have family. I’m a lucky girl! So, this wasn’t the blog I was going to make, lol. But I think maybe it’s the one I was supposed to make.

I am a lucky girl. I love you. I love my friends. I love my lovers…don’t have any right now. That’s another blog 🤭 I don’t think I would change anything! I’m a lucky girl. And you know what? I know I’m a lucky girl because of Pony …..😘🤩
Posted:Sep 6, 2021 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 7:05 pm
Snuggles. Isn’t that a fun word? I mean it just warms you. Your heart & your soul.

As a mom, I did this quite often. Mostly with my minime. Not that I didn’t snuggle with my oldest, it was just a different situation. But minime was my snuggler. In a chair, on the couch and in bed.

Snuggles kept away the scary. Snuggles made the hurt go away. Snuggles warmed the heart. Not just for mini, but for me as well. Warmed my soul without me having to bare it.

Snuggles were not a regular part of either my marriages. I’m a romantic at heart. I just didn’t find the right one husband. I have had people in my life who were great. Great men. Great lovers. But, sex is not the only part of a relationship.

I’m all about the snuggles. I love the feeling of a mans arms around me. The feeling of my head on his chest. The warmth of a person who cares. I love snuggling up with someone on the couch. Watching a movie or just talking about life. I love snuggling in bed. The snuggles can be a sweet way to initiate sex. Snuggling in the afterglow…..

I know it’s corny. But, that’s what I want. I want that guy. The guy who doesn’t look at me the way I do. The way the men in my life made me feel about myself. I really want to snuggle. Never know when that could happen. He can come sit on my couch. Pull me into his arms. My head on his chest listening to his heartbeat. The smell of him. My hands running through his chest hair.

I love snuggles…
Seasons change
Posted:Sep 5, 2021 4:58 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2021 3:51 pm
Been awhile since I’ve peeked in. Life has a way of doing that us. Between our normal hectic lives, Covid and the world in general.

And as the seasons change, so do our lives. Simple things….graduations! Engagements! Weddings! New babies…. And death. We grow and as we age, we gain wisdom.

Our lives are just like the seasons. The newness of birth just like the blooms of spring.
The heat of new love just like summer. Our lives change as do the leaves of fall. And hearts grow cold just like the winters ice.

I’m there. I’m in the fall. I had my wonderful spring when I met my love. My summer of love and heat. Now my fall as my marriage ends.

Im not sure what will happen for winter. I know my heart won’t grow cold. I will always love my ex. I really hoped it was my happily ever after. Others saw, I couldn’t. I saw my love. But neither my love or myself was strong enough be enough.

I’m ok. I’m not bitter. I’m thankful. Im thankful for this divorce. I’m ok. I’m on my own for the first time in my life. I have be the one make myself happy. I need love me!

I’m glad crawl back into my crib. I’m ok. I’m thankful that I have my blanket of family and friends to keep me warm.

Sending lots of love…warm hugs…and why not, some big wet 😘!

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